Erich Fromm Arti i te dashuruarit
Is love really art? If so, then it requires work and knowledge. If it is nothing but a pleasant sensation, the experience of which is something accidental, a state that you experience if you are lucky, then things change. For most, the problem of love, first of all, lies in how to be loved and not how to love yourself. Towards this goal they walk in different ways. One path that is especially characteristic of men, is based on being successful in life, having as much power and wealth as his social position allows. The other way that is preferred by women, is to try to become as attractive as possible, to take care of their appearance, to dress nicely, etc.